Well, I already stated explicitly that I think there is a difference between fantasy and downloading images of friends to masturbate with.
Perhaps it is complex, but so is the dissection of much of human behavior that we all draw personal lines of demarcation on. And the line between fantasy and action here is where I draw the line.
Take for example someone who occasionally fantasizes about illicit sex with a minor. I would find the step from fantasizing about it, under the compulsion of arousal, to be different from going onto the internet to find pictures of children to save for masturbation in the future. This is my personal feeling about the difference between the two. The difference, I suppose, between the spontaneity of fantasy and the more borderline activity of
staking out a fantasy involving people that you know.
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Originally Posted by Jetstream
I wholeheartedly agree with you on that JinnKai, 's why I have quotations around "seemingly misplaced". There is no proof he used the pictures for mastubatory purposes, and if he did, it is still only a harmless fantasy that involves only one person's image an an alterior sexual escapade. Privacy is meant for all, even for those in commited relationships.
Hell, even in the process of cleaning out my porn files, I find an occasional mp3 or interesting landscape wallpaper in the files. Things get misplaced, along with feelings.
I encourage the OP to try to recover hers by rationalizing it with the only person who can help her find it.
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In my understanding of the situation, he has not denied masturbating while looking at the photos. Has he?