abaya

Are you kidding me? Other than "insisting on wearing our girly underwear," (??) acting like any of the other "attributes" you mention would be a serious turn off to me, and only increases the pressure on men to conform to societal expectations. I simply don't agree.

Eh, I already answered this thread earlier (two years ago!!), but I'll add a striking sense of humor (not a sarcastic or mean one), and a willingness to smile. Also, smoking sucks ass and is the biggest turn-off I've ever encountered. Unsexiest thing ever. I used to be bothered by poor posture, but have since gotten over it, for the most part. And keep up your end of the conversation... initiative goes a long way in displaying confidence (though being a chatterbox does not).

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