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you know, I honestly don't judge people that fast. I'm usually pretty deadset on just making sure the person is relatively intelligent and not a total ditz(which you can usually tell within the 1st 20 minutes), on top of being able to 50/50 conversations. Nothing like spilling a nice little story about some interesting facet of your life to have it fall flat on its face with silence afterward, or talking to someone who answers open ended questions with such fear that they think there may be a right of wrong answer. Just... freaking chill out.
Even then, they can get a 2nd date if the follow up phone calls don't suck.
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