(((((hugs)))))
I have been able to successfully substitue the love I have for a person that I was very close to for a long time and turn it into a kind of friendship I never knew existed.
It took a lot of time, introspect and acceptance. I know that you will be able to work through it and eventually be able to *honestly* hold this person close to your heart, without the hurt and longing. A relationship that can't work for whatever reason, but *feels* like it should be able to, IMO is the worst feeling. Trying and trying and failing everytime.
Good luck in your situation.
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It's best not to be too moral...you cheat yourself out of too much life. - Maude, Harold and Maude.
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