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Originally Posted by paulskinback
I don't know how i'd feel telling friends and family that we met back up and she's got a child. Maybe they'd think I was a fool for going near her, or people might have less respect for her. I know other people's opinions like that shouldn't really matter but we're kidding ourselves if we said we didn't care what others think.
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Just because she has a kid, or because she's an ex?
I hope it's not because of the kid, it's not an STD for cryin' out loud!
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Originally Posted by paulskinback
So you would tell her that although you'd like to see her, you wouldn't want any involvement with the kid? I think that would be an instant "no-no" in her eyes....
It's really unknown territory for me here too
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Yeah, so you get to weigh the needs of a dependant human against your desire to have a good time. Of course if she's a mom, a good mom anyways, she's not going to look kindly on you not making the kid a priority.
I'd recommend going slowly here, especially if you don't want to hurt her feelings.