I haven't gotten laid in just over a year now. That is when I broke things off with my boyfriend. When I was younger (not that I'm old at 24, but you know) I would've likely gone out and gotten laid (one night stand) or called one of my friends with benefits. But, I've found this too be too easy a way out, one night stands are too easy to come by. Also, sometimes it would make me feel shit. I decided to just wait it out until I found someone that I was at least interested in getting to know more, not just fuck for a night and never speak again. It's been hard at times, but thank God I know how to please myself!! I do however have one of my "friends" that I will probably "see" when he gets back from working away, but we've already been together and know each other well, so I wouldn't consider it a one night stand. I don't know what I'm getting at here really, other than to tell you that I understand what you're going through and that it's not the end of the world. I mean, if you actually started getting "rust on your man junk", THAT would be something to worry about
Hehe. Take care man.