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From what I've learned so far (constant learning process, you women are!) try to make it a complete experience as much as possible. You're not fingering her or going down on her...the two of you are being intimate. This might help her overthinking the 'dirty' stuff you're doing. Its about expressing the feelings you have for each other physically.
Really get her into it. When you're kissing start touching her anywhere there is skin (e.g. the neck, face, hands, arms, etc.). She should be enjoying her self quite a bit now.
Now start to find skin to touch whilst kissing her neck and jaw line. Put your hand on the inside of her shirt staying to her back and sides until you get the signal from her that shes doing pretty well
**Note: All of this requires that you pay attention to her. Stop hip thrusting into her leg and listen and watch. You'll see/hear when you're doing the right thing. believe me.***
Its just natural progression after this. Mostly just be gentle and slow. Make your way to her breasts and just cup them for a while before you start squeezing them gently and playing with her nipples.
A lot can be done with teasing too. When you're touching her put just a finger in her waistband. Get her comfortable with you being there and then go just a tiny bit further.
Its also not where you're touching but how. There are subtle but significant differences between a light touch (tickle?) and a hard grab (you're fucking hot I want you now.) Some women love to be manhandled and others like to be treated a bit more lightly.
Being a guy the chances are you're comfortable getting it on....its her you have to be aware/concerned about. eventually you'll have her coming on your hand and in your mouth. Be patient and talk a lot. You'll be ok!
Jesus I didn't realize that was so long...
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