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Originally Posted by pornclerk
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I am also a bit concerned about the sex. My boyfriend is a little scared to use only condoms. Does anyone else use just condoms without being on the pill? If so, is it more risky? Has anyone here gotten pregnant by doing that?
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I didn't read every post following yours, but ...
curious - what would you do if you got pregnant? (answer yourself, not us, if you're not comfortable).
does your BF agree with your answer 100%?
in other words, keep or abort?
y'all need to be on the same page.
and, stick to it.
that's the only advise i have ...
i'm on the ring now and I <3 it, but i've been doing various hormonal bc's for over half my life (yes, i'm old, and no, i'm not having kids) and have never had a big problem ...
but, god, the pregnancy thing in relationships where it's not clear and people follow through or not ... makes me a nervous observer.