Hello all, accidentally stumbled onto this forum, deemed this topic interesting so I read through it and decided to register to drop my opinion (probably won't stay long b/c I hate these colors)
I think alot of you guys are overly harsh and unfair considering his circumstance, this being one of those situations where you don't know how it feels until it happens to you. Its worthy to mention that I've been through something similar (though not to that extent) so I'd hate to think I was siding with the victim, but I think he is just that.
She gave him multiple reasons to not trust her I don't agree with stealing her pass /snooping her email, (thats on some FBI level) ... but that message he found is very telling, and the fact that she neglected to bring it up when he allowed her further proves her deceit and intent.
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"REALY!!!! You HAVE to let me know if you come here okai???? I'll take you to...errhm....places in the city!!!"
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I could understand if this was a vocal convo, but theres no reason for a pause ("errhm") in an email, clearly that is a blatant sexual innuendo
From my point of view the answer you chose was the only and obvious one and
trust me I know that its always easier to give advice than take advice, especially when you don't want to give up on your feelings.
As far as your snooping behind her back, that is as low as it gets, but since he snooped and found something it rasies the question: Is it really that bad? Its sorta like questioning the guy beside you on a plane, so you decide to pat him down and find a b0mb on him - Then at the end of the day is that really wrong?