james t kirk

Getting back to the thread, I despise the negative connotations to the word. I find those who use it in a negative light are often insecure about their own abililities, or more accurately inabilities as a lover. Men even in this day and age are very intimidated by sexually experienced and sexually skilled women.

As far as the word itself goes, certain words identify as masculine, others feminine. For example, you wouldn't call a woman a "creep" or a "jerk", or a "bastard" as those are pretty much reserved for males. Likewise, "bitch" "whore" and "slut" tend to be identified as strictly female. As such, when I hear the word being used, it most likely being aimed at a female and usually (though not always) in a derogatory way. (Red Hot Chilli Peppers being an exception that comes to mind.)

Therefore, when I hear the word I usually react against it. (And to be honest, I hear women using it somewhat more than men - women are often far more judgemental with other women than men are with women). I often think, well, what is a slut? How do you define a slut? A woman who enjoys sex and is not afraid to seek it out or accept the opportunity should it arise? Sounds fine to me.

Truth be told, that's actually what I want in a woman.

I've never been one to appreciate judgement of people's sexuality. (Lest I be judged for mine.)