As far as I know, the Lurkbastids are one of the VERY few couples on this thread who have brought other people into their relationships and MADE IT WORK (in the last four years since this thread was started, I assume!). I admire them a great deal for that. Seems like everyone else who tried it, ended up talking about divorce at one point or another... at least, in the last couple of years. So I've just been consistently impressed with the Lurkbastids and look forward to hearing more about how they keep making things work.
