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Excuse me for asking, but lurkette now that it has been so long since this was originally posted, do you mind sharing how things worked out? Twenty years ago, my wife and I discussed these very things and after a while, even the discussion of it became a difficult situation. This got pushed back beyond the "leave fantasy to fantasy" point to the "never discuss it again point".
I'd be interested in seeing if this worked out, if not how did it get handled? I take it you and ratbastid are still very much together and so either it worked, it didn't and you overcame any difficulties from it or you let it go. I think it intersting too how things may have went with the friend's relationship with you. For my wife and I, were we to do this I think we would have rather had a close enough friend to do it with, yet we would have been just as concerned with the dynamics of that relationship as ours.
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