I've been with a non-experimental sort of partner for a lot of years (like 15), but recently I have a new partner. Wow, whole new world again, and I feel like quite the novice now, despite the amount of partners I've had in the past. So I'm starting to try to get into slightly new things, he wants to explore with me, but he slows down if I need him to. I just find I can be so different with this new partner, and so I'm into exploring, but also wondering where the boundaries are with that. I've gotten into the light domination stuff we have going on, spanking and so forth, but I've never really been into anal stuff, and he's suggested that. While he'd never do anything I'm uncomfortable with, I'm also thinking I might not dig it now because I haven't had the experience with the right person, I don't know. So I guess my resolution is to keep an open mind, and explore as much as I'm comfortable with!
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