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Originally Posted by Dilbert1234567
With regards to TTC:
it took me just about 5 minutes to figure out what the OP was talking about with Google, the reason I gave it 5 minutes instead of brushing it off was its a brand new member, unfortunately, everyone piled on complaining and I think we lost a new member, as of yesterday, she had not returned to the board. We’ve got to remember that new members are not thick skinned yet and don’t know the rules, they will fuck up, and if we don’t correct them in a decent manner, they will leave.
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Oh come on. I prefer to give new users the benefit of the doubt that they're not sniveling children. If the OP can't take a little good-natured ribbing, especially after what was frankly a ridiculous opening post, then I'll freely admit that yes, I should indeed have treated him or her like a sniveling child.
But when someone can't bother to take the time to write more than 6 words explaining their situation and what they want, what are we to do? If you want to have a kid, you should have sex. If the situation is more complicated than that, then you need to explain yourself.