With regards to TTC:
it took me just about 5 minutes to figure out what the OP was talking about with Google, the reason I gave it 5 minutes instead of brushing it off was its a brand new member, unfortunately, everyone piled on complaining and I think we lost a new member, as of yesterday, she had not returned to the board. We’ve got to remember that new members are not thick skinned yet and don’t know the rules, they will fuck up, and if we don’t correct them in a decent manner, they will leave.
With regards to Flaps?:
It is the same case as with (fuck it we all know who were talking about) bloody_rose20 she's new, I think calling her on her opinion was justified, however, when everyone else in the thread piles on it's intimidating to new members. Now if ShaniFaye starts making fun of guys who's left ball hangs lower then their right, let's all berate her and hard, but for the entire forum to go after a new member, it's going to kill off the new members quickly.
One rude, berating comment every now and then is fine, as long as it’s justified, but a continued slur of them is not.
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