A) Take the opinion/post at face value without trying to put a personal spin on the personality behind the words. If there's a personal touch one needs to incorporate, state so, ie; 'in my view' or 'as I see it'.
B) Speak up. If someone thinks what's said is directed at them or negative, ASK!! PM them. A major disagreement/meltdown could have totally been avoided with one simple question.
C) Self-edit. And post sober.
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