If having needs is "needy", then I guess you are. Like every other human.
You have to ask yourself if you want to stick around in a situation where you have to push someone to fulfill your needs, and be made to feel bad about yourself for it.
Sounds to me like she could be infatuated with the idea of being a lesbian, or bi. I don't know many lesbos who spend that much time and effort dedicated solely to gender- and sexually-defined activities.
What was the fall out from her "on line" relationship? Did she hide it? Is it a problem? There's a lot of background in that couple of lines.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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