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Old 03-19-2007, 11:18 AM   #15 (permalink)
genuinegirly
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How much of an unconditional friend are you willing to become? Would you be able to handle being her friend at the end of the day if you decide not to be her SO? If you decide to be her friend through anything, then stick to her. If you're only looking for a relationship - this is far from what she needs right now - get out. You have a while to decide if you want the relationship. Divorce papers take a while to process. Emotions take much longer to sift through. She will have a rougher time if a trusted male friend decides to stop being her friend. You need to decide now that you're willing to be her friend. That's all. One step at a time.
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