I tend to be on the lazy side of things. I'll admit it. In my defense I work 10 hours most days. So that when I am actually home I'm not in the mood to do much of anything.
Luckily Alpha phi and I have a new agreement since our move and my new career. I do not want him to work full time. If he wants a part time job, fine. He stays home, cleans, cooks, etc.. Yeah I'm spoiled
I help out if he asks me too or I notice he needs help with laundry ect...
Constant communication is the only thing that can keep it working. It may seem like nagging her but you may have to bring it up many many times to get through.