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I think it is in our nature to want more than one partner. To have sex with more than one partner. The marriage vow works contrary to this and forces an unnatural state of fidelity.
The swinging lifestyle is not for everyone. I know it's not for me. My wife and I acknowledge that we do not want to know if the other "needs" to go out and have sex with someone else. But both of us have permission to do so.
The risks? If the other finds out, there is a very real chance that it will be over (not good for either of us and not good for the kids). What also needs to be factored into your thinking is, is this a one night stand or a full blown affair? An affair ends up in emotions being developed and attachments made. An affair isn't fair to any party and someone will always end up getting hurt.
I currently do not take this risk and haven't for many years. I do not want to know what she does.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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