I have been once, and would love to go again. Most of the clubs in our area have rules against full nudity since they also serve alcohol, which is disappointing. But even so, a bunch of hot women dancing around (mostly) naked, is still pretty awesome.
Like amonkie said, you can usually tell the dancers that are having a great time and really into it from the ones that aren't. In my experience, some of the women were really happy to see me there and had no problem interacting with me, and some just ignored me figuring they'd make more money off the male customers.
I did have a lapdance, and it was a couple's dance as SecretMethod70 was with me as well. It was definitely fun, and I really enjoyed watching him enjoy himself with another woman as well as enjoy her myself. Because of the way most
lapdances work, they are generally more arousing for a guy.
It's more difficult to...stimulate...a woman without more direct contact, but it was still a really great time. At the club we went to, touching was allowed, and so I can now say that in some cases, implants don't feel as nice as real boobs.
All in all I'd say that strip clubs are a lot of fun. It's a safe environment to be in as a woman as long as you watch out for yourself, and can be a lot of fun for a couple as well, as long as you talk about what you're each comfortable with first. It can great way to either express your sexuality if you are lesbian/bi, but also just a way to kick back and just let loose for a bit as a woman who's just looking to have a good time. They
are expensive however, so just be prepared for that if you decide to go. (However, I did find that many clubs offer reduced/free cover for women) And keep plenty of singles handy!