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Old 02-10-2007, 05:06 PM   #48 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by abaya
I agree with Gilda in terms of rape.

But your question, Nimetic, is related to the one I asked previously on this thread (and which went unanswered, as far as I could tell).



Cheating-sex is not the same as rape-sex (in terms of physical harm/damage, which is what I assume Gilda meant by it being more harmful than kissing)... so how to answer my question?
For me, it again comes down to comparing stages of the relationship. Kissing another person would happen at an earlier stage in the relationship than having sex would.

But when I compare the intimacy of the kisses I share with Grace, and the intimacy involved in the sex, the kissing is, for me, more emotionally intimate.
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