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I think most of you are too hard on her and the rest are getting excited like dogs around a bitch on heat. Give the girl a break!
I don't think the fact that it's another girl and not a guy makes that much of a difference. I had a friend whose gf dumped him for another girl and that was pretty traumatizing for him.
And I also think that how we react will also depend on our environment and our age. I'm much more accepting of cheating and especially cheating with the same same gender now than when I was 18-22.
I also think that we have have fetishes/fantasies that yearn to be fulfilled and when the opportunity arises, we take them and then realize that it isn't that great anyway. I say.. "Way to go, girl. You did something that you've always dreamed of doing and you did it. You realize now that it isn't all it was made up to be and your infatuation with her didn't turn out to be as mind blowing as you had thought. Chalk that up to another experience and move on."
While it must be difficult now and you probably feel more awful than your man, let time heal the wounds. If you move on from it, your man probably will as well. Don't harp on it and take the cue from your man. If he doesn't mention it, don't talk about it and act like it's bygones.
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