*Nikki* - I couldn't agree more!!! My husband has a mouth to die for. I know - I've died many times from it!!
But the more I used the vibe the longer it took to come when my husband went down on me. I'm not as ... open is not quite the right word but it comes close ... open as he is to sex. To me it's still something that is done in the dark in the bedroom in the basic positions. I know, I know - I'm learning!!
But the problem was that it would take longer to come from his mouth and I was trying to come fast (don't know why - guess it's till some inhibition I have) so I would be trying too hard and it wouldn't work.
But I've taken SnowyOwls advice and have been NOT using the toy but doing it myself. It took quite a bit of effort the first time but since has gotten easier. My hubby gets off on watching me play with myself so it's not a hardship for him to take a back seat to my pleasure (so to speak). I'm hoping that in a bit I'll be able to have him get back in the saddle :O) and let him have fun once again!
Never thought I'd be openly talking about this kind of stuff!!