I'm with sage.
I find that now there are so many different types of women going in so many directions, there is no clear guidelines on how to behave. To one flowers are romantic, to another they are cheezy and to another they are old fashioned or even misogynistic. The truth is I have no idea what women want or how they expect me to behave, I have tried being myself and that never works so I have tried being an asshole and that works incredibly well but I feel like shit doing it.
I know I won't make any friends by saying this but I think its time women got back in their box and we concentrated on the real problems of the world like the environment. Feminism began as a beautiful opposition to oppression, and somewhere a long the way during the 90's it was purchased and sold back to us as a product. A new grassroots movement would be nice, something far less self-centred (and preferrably involving both genders). :-)
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