Huh, interesting. I'm starting to think that "kink" is all a relative continuum... everyone can agree that at one end, you have regular ol' sex (in and out), but at the other extreme ("a fetish too far,") you have pretty much everything imaginable. And in between, all sorts of combinations and preferences...
I wonder if we all get shy about discussing our kinks because we all know we like basic sex, and everyone has basic sex... so it's safe to talk and joke about. But we don't want to name something that would show up on someone else's "fetish too far" list.
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