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It's hard to know what's considered kinky. We won't do bloodplay--I have a (distant, but still within memory) history of self injury when depressed, so anything that involves blood is out. I'm likewise squicked by any watersports or scat, so that's out.
So I'm not sure. Bondage? We do that on a regular basis, always with me on bottom. It can be what I'd call vanilla bondage, the spread eagled on the bed, blindfolded, and often gagged. Sometimes it involves minor inflictions of pain (I'm mildly masochistic) such as nipple clamps or nipple screws, use of hot sauce, heat or cold, spanking, being restrained in frustratingly uncomfortable (though not dangerous) positions for extended periods of time. The most effective positions are those that are just a little uncomfortable, but allow enough movement that it seems like I should be able to get comfortable, but can't. A karada shibari (full body rope harness) attached to a ceiling hook and tied off out of reach is deliciously frustrating. It allows free movement of the arms and hands, but restricts you to a very small area of movement, and if there isn't a chair in reach, there's no way to rest.
We also do non-bondage domination, role playing, cosplay.
I'd guess that about two thirds of what we do is vanilla cunnilingus, with the rest being variations of the more exotic stuff.
Jozrael: I know what you mean about giving a blow job. It's the only kind of sex with a man that I've ever enjoyed.
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