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Originally Posted by pigglet
abaya, i think its funny that you consider anal vanilla. is that because of your evangelical roots / it's ok as long as its not in the vagina stuff? i know a lot of people for whom casual anal would be anathema.
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Well, I'd say that no, it doesn't have much to do with the good ol' evangelicalism. It WAS anathema, back then... no ifs, ands, or... dare I say it, butts.
At that point in my life, it was daring if my boyfriend french-kissed me or *attempted* to remove clothing (he rarely succeeded). I was 19 then, and stopped him cold on both counts.
So no, anal is more "vanilla" now because it was where my husband and I started to experiment... it was the starting point of conscious non-vanilla-ness for me.