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I don't think I've shied away from talking about being the bottom in a BDSM relationship with my wife. I don't go into a lot of detail other than in PM, and don't start threads about it because I'm not really very assertive in that way. Besides, I don't really expect that anyone's going to find it all that interesting that I enjoy being tied up and flogged or playing Mistress/subservient games with Grace.
There are also some shame issues I still need to work out. I know that there's nothing wrong with anything two people do together sexually so long as it's consensual and done safely, but actually talking about it in a semi-public place, even one that's semi-anonymous like TFP, still can make me a little uncomfortable, not because I fear judgment--well, there's a little of that, but because of my anxiety disorders, there's a little of that with everything I do--but because I have issues about being open about things with pretty much anyone but Grace, and to a lesser extent, my sister.
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