abaya,
cycles baby, cycles. Remember when nancy, or buddha, hal, sixedmia, pinkie, ratbastid, lurkette etc used to post about this stuff non-stop? i think you're just hitting an 'upswing' and the board is in a down swing, in terms of what people are talking about. the only think i can think of that you need to start talking about it. not everything you bring up has to necessarily be a practice you personally partake in.
i'm not sure what the evolution of sexuality means, save for in terms of one's personal experience. people have been having their way with each other in every way possible for a long time. maybe virtual reality will bring a new wrinkle, but i don't know. its possible that you've evolved quite a ways since you started posting, and now you're not challenged by the sexual discussions going on. my guess is that it will break out again at some point, with a new coterie of members sharing how they knock it out. its just not quite there yet, or so it would seem.
i don't know where the line between vanilla and kinky lies, per say, but i think you started the thread because you're missing that type of conversation that used to be pretty common on tfp, but you're not ready at this point, and may never be, to quite post about it in full openness for the reasons you gave. got any admins/mods you *do* trust? they could post anonymously for you to get the topic started. of course, we'd need to get a bunch of people to post their stuff, anonymously at once....otherwise, it might be sort of obvious who is "anonymously" posting...
edit, and to add one to spectre's post - you started opening up. restraints can be kind of nice, but i've always found a belt will do the trick. favorite one is one of the style that went out in the mid nineties...no buckle, ergo no limit on where / how you tie things. then again, i'm more of a macguyver type anyways, so i'd rather make stuff up as i go.
if it helps you out, i'll tell you that i've partaken in all the stuff you mentioned, but the only thing that's been up my ass is a finger.
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