It varies. I'm a sucker for the soft lights, music, lot's of gentle kissing and caressing stuff, which is what I voted for. I also occasionally like being tied up and flogged, which I suppose would qualify as sensual and aggressive. We'd never do anything dangerous--it's the illusion of danger that's the turn on.
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