How much do your parents know about your sex life?
Well, they know I have one, and that there are no problems associated with that.
Do they know when you lost your virginity?
No. My mom THINKS she knows, and I'm happy to let her think that way for the rest of her life. If she knew the real story, she would have a breakdown of some kind. Dad has no idea, and doesn't care.
DID they know when you lost your virginity?
Same as above.
Do you ever discuss sex with them?
Both of them feel free to drop lewd comments and jokes on a regular basis (they've always been less than Puritan with their humor, which I don't mind at all). My mom has gone so far as to ask, "Are you kinky?" (which I do not answer!) She has also asked about my having orgasms, because she didn't have them for a long time and was wondering if I was more "liberated" in that sense. She has also inquired about the size/length of ktspktsp's penis, which I also do not answer. (Remember, she's Thai... privacy is not a known concept.) Dad and I talked once about me being on birth control, that was it. And he makes vague references to S&M being fun, which crack me up.
But, I do know that if I ever had problems with my sex life, I could definitely ask either of them in all seriousness, and they would answer in all seriousness. I feel pretty open with them, just not inclined to talk when things are going fine. In fact, it would take some serious health/biological issues to cause me to bring up the topic with them!
Have you had sex when they were in the same house?
Well, they are not together, so I've only had sex when my mother has been at home. I don't stay at my dad's house. But yeah, when my mom has been home (and various other relatives)... pretty much every time ktspktsp and I have gone to visit, we've had sex there. In all the beds, at some point.
It was more of a problem before we were married, since then we had to "hide" it from the more conservative relatives staying with my mom... (though she didn't care, herself), sneaking in and out of bedrooms/bathrooms at odd hours. It's SOOOO much better being married, that way!
