I think Gilda put it best:
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Originally Posted by Gilda
One thing that gets lost with the idea of equal treatment is that equal does not mean the same. Equal treatment is about allocating resources in such a way that the needs of both partners are met. Equal is about balancing how we accommodate a partner's needs with meeting one's own needs.
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I would also point out that Hagatha is right when she says she expects it because she is special. I too expect special treatment from the one I love.
The point is, if the person you are with does not think you are special enough to do the little things you like or to surprise you when you least expect it... and you don't feel the same way about them... then why are you together?
You should be "really fucking special" to each other or why bother.