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Well, for one thing, I think there is a vast difference between an 18 yo male and a 21 yo male. I'd like to think that a 21 yo male would have moved on to girls more his age whereas an 18 yo still relating to girls they might have been in high school with a year before is more to be expected.
But that said, neither scenario concerns me too much "morally." Yet, in many states such relationships are illegal and that needs to be given consideration.
And I think will's point about 18-21 yo males and their rarely dating without the expectation of sex is completely valid and realistic. No reason to pile so much grief on him about it.
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