In my opinion, getting married and having kids is a great way of life. For me, I have always wanted a reason to settle down and have this kind of responsibility. I have always hated the dating scene, and I was never much into going to bars, loud parties, etc.
One thing I found out is that no matter how prepared you think you are to have a family, it's still a huge adjustment from being single. And it's definately not easy. It takes work.
A friend of mine summed it up perfectly: "It's the biggest pain in the ass you will ever enjoy".
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