Yes, redlemon, I know what you mean... I have that fantasy, too, of having sex *around* other people who are having sex, but not *with* people other than my husband. Sort of a live-porn effect, you might say. Then again, sometimes I wonder if we might not get carried away and want to touch and interact with those fucking around us... but I believe there are boundaries for all of those things, so maybe it wouldn't be a problem. Let me know what you find out!