My ten year is still two years away but it's not a tradition out here to have that kind if "get-together". There has been talk about something because one of my best friends, who was at HS with me, always loves to see people again and know what they're up to. Honestly though, even though I'll probably go, the people I really did want to keep in touch with from HS I have done. That makes about 3 or 4 people in total. Everyone else I can do without frankly...they weren't my friends or nice to me, so I don't really want to meet them to know if they're happy and successful in life - and I don't have the "rubbing-it-in" instinct in me 
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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