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Originally Posted by TH12
Mixed Media: Yes, I phatasize about things I wouldn't really want, and probably wouldn't enjoy in reality. Mostly, I fantasize about dominating a woman, usually including spanking, and anal sex. But I know that truly loving relationships need equality, and I know that G*d loves His daughters as much or more than His sons, so I don't think I'd really be comfortable taking away my lover's freedom by dominating games. And I know that anal sex isn't half what my fantasies about it are, just a tiny bit tighter and a nice variation. But in my fantasy life, anal is SO HOT! I think because a women really has to surrender to invite her man into her back door. I confess to really enjoying the way women surrender to sex. Surrender is a part of a woman's sexual experience to some degree, and so "taking her" is a part of a man's. Only I get off on it like a power trip. My wife and my ex were both strong women, and I don't feel that I dominated them in reality, except maybe that little surrender in sex. So that power over the pussy king of scene is my fantasy.
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Well, if your lover wanted to play those games, too, then you may find you like to play domination games. It's all in fun and, of course, your lover wouldn't
really be giving up her freedom. Albeit, there are folks who enjoy taking it much further, as well, and if it is consensual then more power to them. Sharing that kind of intimacy can be very empowering to both of you and to your relationship.
And anal sex
is very hot, dude. And not really uncommon or taboo. If you want to try it, talk to her about it. She may be interested, too.
As long as you have a good grasp of where your partner's boundaries are when it comes to D/s sexual activities you can both have a lot of fun with it.
I feel like I'm taking this thread off-track...sorry.