Mixed Media: Yes, I phatasize about things I wouldn't really want, and probably wouldn't enjoy in reality. Mostly, I fantasize about dominating a woman, usually including spanking, and anal sex. But I know that truly loving relationships need equality, and I know that G*d loves His daughters as much or more than His sons, so I don't think I'd really be comfortable taking away my lover's freedom by dominating games. And I know that anal sex isn't half what my fantasies about it are, just a tiny bit tighter and a nice variation. But in my fantasy life, anal is SO HOT! I think because a women really has to surrender to invite her man into her back door. I confess to really enjoying the way women surrender to sex. Surrender is a part of a woman's sexual experience to some degree, and so "taking her" is a part of a man's. Only I get off on it like a power trip. My wife and my ex were both strong women, and I don't feel that I dominated them in reality, except maybe that little surrender in sex. So that power over the pussy king of scene is my fantasy.
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