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I have had LDRs, just like probably most people here. My suggestion for the "sexual" part would be to try phone sex. Some people just aren't into that kind of thing, but it can be a very satisfying and bonding type thing. Cyber-sex while fun, is a little impersonal unless you have a web cam...but THAT can be interesting as well. With phone sex, you are communicating directly with each other, voice, loudness, tone, inflection...ALL can be used to heighten the experience, and bring you two closer, without actually having intercourse. Sex in a relationship is a BIG factor, but doesn't mean that it is a necessity for the relationship to work. If you two ARE connecting so well as you say, then by keeping the fires going on the phone, you can see how well the two of you click. Personally, I feel that if two people can't connect well when they are apart, how can the connect well while together.....
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