So I'm in a long distance relationship. I probably need to give a timeline, so you have an idea where we are and where I'm coming from.
We met in Nov 04 online, and were dating in Sept 05. I say dating, but we still didn't get a chance to meet, because he lives a good 3 hour plane ride away. I met him in May 06 (yes it was a horrible wait) and then spent a few more days with him in July/August of 06. So it's been 4, will be 5, months since we've seen each other, and needless to say we're both going insane.
I was wondering, those of you who were in an LDR where you weren't within driving distance, did you wait for sex? I mean my logic is we've known each other for 2 years (talked every day online or the phone), but we've only spent a few days actually "together." The wierd thing is in those few days, everything felt...right. Like we'd been together for years. I've never been so comfortable with anyone.
Plus, we'll be apart for a few more months after I spend a week with him at Christmas, and I know that sex would make it even harder to say goodbye. And add into this stellar mix that we're both virgins, so it'd be a really big deal if we did have sex. (that was a lot harder to post in a public forum than I thought
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In short, logically, I think we shouldn't because it'll make the distance significantly worse, basically. Logically, I barely "know" the guy. The problem is my gut says otherwise. Being as I've never had sex before, though, I really don't know whether I'm making a mountain out of a molehill, because I've got no frame of reference. If you could give me any information or advice on this, I'd appreciate it.
PS One more thing. He's moving here this summer. I dunno if that changes anything, but I figured it was worth mentioning.