Damn right there's more to be said, I've dated a coworker few years ago and when we broke up, she decided to start a big scene about some dumb thing that I didn't do. Eventually a manager had to step in, she did get in trouble for casuing the scene but I learn a valuable lesson from that experience, never date a coworker.
I've just violated that lesson, I'm dating another coworker (same company) but this time, we both work in different department (She's in HR while I'm in Flight Ops) and we both work at different time. She was initially concerned about everybody finding out about both of us but I managed to convince her that if we handle it properly, we shouldn't have too much of an issues with other coworkers if they found out about us.
If other coworkers find out about us or if they found out about your pursue of this lady-friend, who gives a shit? It's none of their business to begin with, nor does it violate any company policy.
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