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Originally Posted by Moskie
Her saying that caught me off guard, but I knew right away that it hurt. But I couldn't instantly come to terms with why it hurt. What did it mean to me for her spend the night at my place? What did it mean that she didn't feel comfortable being there? Did it even matter? And (girls being girls ) I knew if I phrased what I was feeling wrongly, I could be in a mess of trouble that I'm not looking to be in.
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And guess what? You'll NEVER get to the bottom of it as long as you keep it inside your own head. Things like that have to get worked out in conversations with other people--which is one of the things a relationship is
for.
You mind is a bad neighborhood. Don't go there alone.