so i am in my own little world thinking that the two work together, and that one is needed to fully enjoy the other . . . . wow, that kinda sucks
but outside of these forums i have seen nothing to show me otherwise. . . . i have read the posts above, and that's all well and fine (on paper) but i have seen nothing in real life to show me that the two can be in a happy and healthy manner without love (or at least a strong ass attraction) coming before the sex.
granted, you can do it anyway you want, but i still think sex is love (or that love comes first) because that is the only way i have seen it happily done. just becuase you can switch the two around does not mean it is right or a good way to do it . . .
it's sad that i seem to be alone in that . . . .
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