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Originally Posted by Strange Famous
Well... Ive been seeing this girl for about six months, and now I find out that she was also seeing her ex boyf (or not so ex perhaps) on and off throughout it, and now we have broken up over her refusal to stop going round his house and staying the night there.
It's... idk... in an objective sense I can see like its a good thing to end this way if it has to end, cos after the first kind of shock of her absence, at least Im not gonna be wanting her back... but right now I just feel shamed, humiliated.... like, almost I feel like everyone in the world is taking the piss out of me.
I mean, Im not saying I want to turn violent over it and go and hit the guy or anything, but I just feel bad and like Ive been made a fool of and there is no way to get back.
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Dump the ho, forget her phone number, and no matter how much she tries to get in touch with you to "work things out" break off all contact with her
forever.
I completely understand how you feel about being the laughingstock of town, but people will respect you more for breaking it off with her and walking away after you found out she was cheating. If you walk but later go back to her,
then you will have earned yourself the title of village idiot and will truly be the laughingstock of town.
The bottom line is that this chick never really digged you to begin with since she kept her no-so-ex-boyfriend in the background. Therefore, you have no reason to stay with her, and if you ever find yourself tempted to go back to her just remember the humiliation she caused you and allow yourself to build resentment over what she did do you so that the thought of going back to her makes you want to puke.