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Infinite_Loser · 10-25-2006, 01:17 PM

I'm sure I've told this story before, but here goes.

I and my girlfriend had been dating for about 11 months (We had about a 3 month break in between). As all couples do, we were having a few problems but I didn't consider them anything major. Anyway, November rolls around and that's when the biggest problems started. I noticed that my girlfriend was becoming cold towards me and much less affectionate. I also noticed that she always seemed to be "Busy" whenever I wanted to do something together.

Well, the days go by and it's finally the day of my birthday. My girlfriend hasn't bothered to call me to wish me happy birthday or anything of the sort. Therefore, I decide to call her to see what's up. No response. So I log onto MSN and see that's she's on. I send her a message and she replies with a less than pleasant response and a fight ensues. After this goes on for around 30 or so minutes, I plainly asked her what she wanted from our relationship and she said "Nothing". I then asked her if she loved me anymore and she blankly said "No". After that I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said "Yes". She then proceeded to block me on MSN.

Needless to say I was crushed. I remember bitching to my friend for what seemed like forever (I'm surprised he actually listened to me instead of telling me to shut up) and he told me to just give her time to decide what she wanted. So I waited a few hours and, sure enough, she unblocks me and states that she doesn't really want to break up, but that she wants a little time to decide what she wants. Meh... I can deal with that, as I really don't want to break up with her. Still, I didn't want to be alone during my birthday so I ended up going out with one of my female friends. When I get home I see an IM from my girlfriend asking what I did for my birthday and I told her that I went out with one of my friends and she lost it. She went on and on and on about how she just wanted a little time and how I couldn't wait to move on, even though this wasn't the case. To make a long story short, she ended it right then and there in the most bitchiest of fashions, blaming me for our problems and the subsequent break-up.

The ironic thing is that she complained about her previous boyfriend treating her like shit on her birthday, yet she turned around and did it to me.

In the months that followed I had a hard time dealing with the break-up because I had wanted to marry this girl (And she knew it). I sacrificed so much time for her and was her friend when absolutely no one else would and, through it all, she was completely unappreciative. I tried to get her back by showing her that I could fix everything she found wrong with me, but that didn't work. It was just so hard for me to move on. Of course, it wasn't hard for her to move on as she got engaged within-- Get this-- A month of ending our relationship. What a bitch!

Anyway, you'd think that was the end of the story but it's not. She ignored me for months and then one day, out of the blue, I get an email from her saying that she hasn't been able to sleep because she needs to talk to me. I'm a nice guy by nature, so I tell her I'll listen even though I don't really want to. Come to find out she had been on multiple dates with people behind my back and cheated on me twice with two different guys just days before my birthday. She also tells me that, within minutes of breaking up with me, she was already in a new relationship with one of the people she cheated on me with (The person she's engaged to). Keep in mind this is 7 months after the fact. She then goes on to say that she still loves me and wants me back. Well, me being gullible and naive gladly jumped at the news that she wanted to make it work.

To make a long story short, it didn't last very long. The fact is that a tiger can't change it's stripes. Even if she said that she had changed, she hadn't. She was still the same old uncaring, selfish, bitch that she's always been. I hate how I wasted over two years of my life on her, but there's nothing that I can do about it now.

10-25-2006, 01:17 PM	#84 (permalink)
Infinite_Loser Junkie Location: Lake Mary, FL	I'm sure I've told this story before, but here goes. I and my girlfriend had been dating for about 11 months (We had about a 3 month break in between). As all couples do, we were having a few problems but I didn't consider them anything major. Anyway, November rolls around and that's when the biggest problems started. I noticed that my girlfriend was becoming cold towards me and much less affectionate. I also noticed that she always seemed to be "Busy" whenever I wanted to do something together. Well, the days go by and it's finally the day of my birthday. My girlfriend hasn't bothered to call me to wish me happy birthday or anything of the sort. Therefore, I decide to call her to see what's up. No response. So I log onto MSN and see that's she's on. I send her a message and she replies with a less than pleasant response and a fight ensues. After this goes on for around 30 or so minutes, I plainly asked her what she wanted from our relationship and she said "Nothing". I then asked her if she loved me anymore and she blankly said "No". After that I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said "Yes". She then proceeded to block me on MSN. Needless to say I was crushed. I remember bitching to my friend for what seemed like forever (I'm surprised he actually listened to me instead of telling me to shut up) and he told me to just give her time to decide what she wanted. So I waited a few hours and, sure enough, she unblocks me and states that she doesn't really want to break up, but that she wants a little time to decide what she wants. Meh... I can deal with that, as I really don't want to break up with her. Still, I didn't want to be alone during my birthday so I ended up going out with one of my female friends. When I get home I see an IM from my girlfriend asking what I did for my birthday and I told her that I went out with one of my friends and she lost it. She went on and on and on about how she just wanted a little time and how I couldn't wait to move on, even though this wasn't the case. To make a long story short, she ended it right then and there in the most bitchiest of fashions, blaming me for our problems and the subsequent break-up. The ironic thing is that she complained about her previous boyfriend treating her like shit on her birthday, yet she turned around and did it to me. In the months that followed I had a hard time dealing with the break-up because I had wanted to marry this girl (And she knew it). I sacrificed so much time for her and was her friend when absolutely no one else would and, through it all, she was completely unappreciative. I tried to get her back by showing her that I could fix everything she found wrong with me, but that didn't work. It was just so hard for me to move on. Of course, it wasn't hard for her to move on as she got engaged within-- Get this-- A month of ending our relationship. What a bitch! Anyway, you'd think that was the end of the story but it's not. She ignored me for months and then one day, out of the blue, I get an email from her saying that she hasn't been able to sleep because she needs to talk to me. I'm a nice guy by nature, so I tell her I'll listen even though I don't really want to. Come to find out she had been on multiple dates with people behind my back and cheated on me twice with two different guys just days before my birthday. She also tells me that, within minutes of breaking up with me, she was already in a new relationship with one of the people she cheated on me with (The person she's engaged to). Keep in mind this is 7 months after the fact. She then goes on to say that she still loves me and wants me back. Well, me being gullible and naive gladly jumped at the news that she wanted to make it work. To make a long story short, it didn't last very long. The fact is that a tiger can't change it's stripes. Even if she said that she had changed, she hadn't. She was still the same old uncaring, selfish, bitch that she's always been. I hate how I wasted over two years of my life on her, but there's nothing that I can do about it now. __________________ I believe in equality; Everyone is equally inferior to me. Last edited by Infinite_Loser; 10-25-2006 at 01:19 PM..