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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
This tells you she wants you as a safety net incase she finds herself alone but still wants license to go out and party and screw other guys.
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You don't want to be someone's backup man. If she did ever go back to you she would think of herself only as settling. I know it's hard, I've been in this situation first hand myself. If you tell her that if she loves you she wouldn't be out there sleeping with other men then she'll make it look like you're the bad guy who's not giving her any freedom.
What I would do is try to make her jealous, I'd start dating other people. What this means if you're not chasing after her so much anymore. When you are constantly chasing after someone's love they don't like it. Might make her wonder why you don't want her anymore and perhaps she will chase after you a little. But if you don't want to play games then disregard what I've said.