Ah found it...
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What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
THESE ARE THE THINGS WE WILL DO IF THE MOOD IS RIGHT:
1]Explore female-female fantasies (no set limits)
2]Your man - kissing and above waste contact with me
3]Your woman - kissing and above waste contact with my husband
4]Same room sex (with spouse)
THESE ARE THE THINGS WE MIGHT DO:
1] My husband/Your woman - everything but intercourse.
2] Me/Your husband - a work in SLOW progress, but previously let another man perform oral on me (See above). No guarantees though.
THIS IS WHAT WE ARE NOT READY FOR NOW AND MAYBE NEVER:
1] Full swap.....
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This was a want to be husband, unwilling wife, who have given up the LS. I wish I had their first list, but this was their last one before quitting, they modified it apparently after each encounter.
The big red flag is the 3/4th swap. Your wife can have sex with my husband but I won't have sex with you, nor will I let you touch me 'down there'. Sure these rules made them 'comfortable' or more precisely made the wife less uncomfortable with meeting couples, but they were still based on issues we would rather not be in the middle of. Drama bombs are bad