It'll be a very cold day in hell before I do something to alter my appearance soley on the whims of another.
I have every intention of getting 'updated' and the approximate timeframe in which to do it. I get the rolled eyes look and have even been told by my best friend "uh...no, you're not You're beautiful as you are". Uh, yes I am. And I'll look the same, only not so tired out.
My sister has this boyfriend. He told her, "If you get a boob job to make them look like your sister's(meaning mine), I'll pay for it." WTF???? She got a boob job, same size as mine, but she paid for it herself from a lawsuit settlement. She's happy with them, he's happy with them. Of course, she's 48 years old, more wrinkled than I'll ever be, sick all the time, but her boobs look great!
Lindalove: If you can befriend this woman, do it. It sounds like she's really stuck in a hellish position. I worked with a woman sort of the same way-she was a chronic exercise freak, fearful of getting fat, was skinny as hell, moody; when she got married, it was 'Jimmy this, Jimmy that' He was all she had that was 'good'...one day, while Jimmie was at work, she wrote a note, took some pills and laid down and never got up.