It's totally normal to have those feelings every now and again. Last month I was a little worried because I had forgotten to take my pill and my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex.
When my period came, I have to admit being somewhat disappointed. I don't really know why. I guess part of me liked the thought of being pregnant.
Don't get me wrong, I would never try to get pregnant behind my boyfriend's back and then surprise him with the news. That would be a totally bitchy thing to do.
I can say though that I am not ashamed of having those feelings. They are part of human nature. It's important to react to those feelings in a responsible way.
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